Virtual Therapy vs. In-Person Therapy: What’s the Difference and Which Is Right for You?
Over the past few years, therapy has become more accessible than ever. Whether you’re curled up on your couch with a cup of tea or sitting in a cozy office chair, the support you need is just a conversation away. But with both virtual therapyand in-person therapy available, you might be wondering: Which one is best for me?
Here’s a look at the pros and cons of each option to help you choose the format that fits your life, your comfort, and your goals.
🌐 The Pros of Virtual Therapy
Convenience. No commute, no traffic, no parking. You can attend sessions from the comfort of home, your office, or even your car.
Accessibility. Especially helpful if you live in a rural area, have mobility challenges, or a busy schedule.
Comfort. Being in your own environment can help you feel safer and more open—especially when discussing vulnerable topics.
Flexibility. Virtual therapy makes it easier to fit sessions into your routine, which can increase consistency and follow-through.
⚠️ The Cons of Virtual Therapy
Technology hiccups. Internet issues or glitches can interrupt the flow of a session (though most therapists have backup plans!).
Privacy concerns. If you live with others, it can be hard to find a truly private space to talk.
Missing nonverbal cues. While video can still feel personal, it’s not quite the same as being in a shared physical space.
🛋️ The Pros of In-Person Therapy
Physical presence. Sharing space with your therapist can feel grounding and create a strong sense of connection.
Fewer distractions. A therapy office is designed to be calming and free of interruptions—making it easier to focus on yourself.
Helpful for certain types of therapy. Some therapeutic approaches (like EMDR or somatic work) may be more effective in person.
Easier body language reading. For both therapist and client, it’s easier to pick up on subtle cues in person.
⚠️ The Cons of In-Person Therapy
Travel time. You’ll need to factor in commuting, parking, and scheduling around travel time.
Limited availability. If you’re in a smaller town, there may be fewer therapists nearby—or none who specialize in what you need.
Less flexible. You’ll need to be in a specific place at a specific time, which can be tough with a busy or unpredictable schedule.
💡 So… Which Is Better?
Honestly? There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. It depends on your preferences, lifestyle, and what helps you feel most supported.
Some people start with virtual therapy and eventually move to in-person. Others do the opposite. Some stick with one format forever because it just works. The good news is—you get to decide.
What matters most is not how you attend therapy, but that you’re showing up for yourself.
Curious about virtual therapy?
I offer online therapy for women in Virginia and North Carolina. If you're wondering if virtual sessions are right for you, I’d love to talk it through.
How Do You Know When It’s Time for Therapy?
How Do You Know When It’s Time for Therapy?
We all go through tough seasons. Maybe you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like you’ve been carrying a heaviness that no one else can see. But how do you know if what you’re going through really warrants therapy?
Let me say this first:
You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy.
In fact, many people start therapy just because they want to better understand themselves, heal old wounds, or navigate life’s transitions with support.
Still unsure if it’s time? Here are some signs to pay attention to:
1. You feel overwhelmed more often than not.
Whether it’s work, relationships, parenting, or just life in general—if you constantly feel like you’re barely keeping your head above water, therapy can help you sort through the chaos and find steadier ground.
2. You're stuck in patterns that no longer serve you.
You keep ending up in the same kinds of relationships. Or you notice yourself reacting in ways that don’t feel aligned with who you want to be. Therapy is a space to get curious about those patterns—not with judgment, but with compassion and the tools for change.
3. You’re struggling to enjoy things you used to love.
When joy, motivation, or interest in your usual routines fade away, it can be a sign that something deeper is going on. You don’t have to “wait until it passes.” Therapy can help you reconnect with yourself and rediscover what lights you up.
4. You’ve experienced a loss, trauma, or big life change.
Grief and transition come in many forms—losing a loved one, ending a relationship, becoming a parent, changing careers, or even moving. Therapy offers a place to process, adjust, and heal at your own pace.
5. You’re tired of holding it all together alone.
If you’ve been “the strong one” for a long time, it might feel unfamiliar (or even uncomfortable) to ask for help. But therapy is a place where you don’t have to carry the weight by yourself.
Therapy isn't just for when things are falling apart.
Starting therapy doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It means you’re brave enough to look inward. It means you're choosing yourself.
If you're wondering whether therapy might help, that wondering is enough of a reason to explore it. You're not alone—and you don’t have to figure it all out by yourself.
Looking for support?
I offer virtual therapy for women in Virginia and North Carolina navigating anxiety, trauma, grief, and life transitions. Let’s talk about what you need—and whether we’re a good fit.